of a grief group. Now I am unable to find a place like this of a Grief Group for siblings.
I spent 3wks giving respit care for my Sis & Dad & helped as best as I could to help & yes, spoil my Brother. I spent a Horrible night with my Bro after the Hospice Nurse said that he was modeling. I held his hand & used my hand cream to massage his hand & left arm. I found on my phone a Navajo Healing Chant & placed an earbud in his ear, hoping to comfort him in his delirium. I talked to him. Sitting in a hard chair for hours was becoming Very Uncomfortable. Dad was there with me, I made him sit in the easy chair because elders always come before younger. I was able to walk around the "skilled nursing" establishment.& then go back to his room. At 1030P we were relieved by my Sis & Niece.
He held on for 7 days & it was Dad who was with him when he expelled his last breath. March 1st at 1003A.
Then I spent 3wks with Sis so she wouldn't be overwhelmed with the task of going thru his belongings. On Easter week I stayed with Dad because he said he didn't want to be alone down there with us up here. Then 2 weeks to sort thru his belongings in her basement.
Grief is the Most multi-symptom, Bizaro in it's finest, level of life.