I have not officially been diagnosed with fibromyalgia; but after three years and appointments with my PCP, rheumatology, neurology, psych, and others with no answers and many symptoms matching up with Fibromyalgia, it is reasonable to say I might have it. I wanted to reach out and try and find a community to see if others have similar experiences and to find support to give and get in how to deal when things flare up. I have pain that sometimes feels like muscle pain, sometimes joint or even nerve pain that almost exclusively is in my extremities. Pressure makes things worse, so working at a desk really causes issues with those areas that are consistently in contact with my desk or chair; brain fog, recall issues, exhaustion, easily to hot or too cold (layers are soo important now a days lol), hot flashes. I don’t really have pain from tough itself, but there are times where a wrinkle in my sheets or clothes that are too textures are really uncomfortable. I only saw the rheumatologist once early on in my journey, and I think he was unsure what to think since I do not pain over all, so he sent me on my way. I think now that things have progressed over the last couple years, it might be time to go back; but I also don’t want to hear him say that he doesn’t know what’s going on since I really don’t know where else to go from here to get answers since I have exhausted most avenues.